When a girl leaves her parents house, she goes to her husband's house (Sasural)-
this was the old scenario. Now that the girls are more advanced, they study and do
jobs, they mostly have to live with
other gals before her Sasural (whether in a hostel or a flat or as a
paying guest) for a short or sometimes a long period of time!!
And let me tell you this is the most beautiful or a most horrible phase of
a girl's life.
If she is lucky and she gets
like-minded people to live with. I would not use the word - 'Good' or 'Bad' as
they are qualitative terms and needs to
be defined with respect with something. And again what GOOD for me may not be
Good Enough for others.
So if the wavelength matches (and you
are in terms with each other differences), then this time will never come back
for you again. Whether you call it the Sister-Hood or Crazy-Gang - its the best
time of life.
Its like, we are each other's genie pigs
for every thing, specially all trial cooks, then make-up and etc etc. [I
even explain my rummies some research paper they are least interested in!]
Parents bother, but only over the
phone.
And the parents who were so concern when you dated someone earlier, would
give u a list of guys and beg you to meet them over coffee.
Gal their you Go!!! Have a lot of coffee before you lose you freedom!!!!!
Well.... well... well, its not all fairy tale for all girls. If you happen
to be with the wrong people then think of it as HELL!! How much you cry over
the phone no rescue is coming, even you know that!
I think, girls in this case rather marry.
One Saans is better than
handling 3-4 more!!!
So Good or Bad, this phase of time prepares you for this Big Bad World!! Even though the world is male dominated, if you have learnt to handle a couple of different gals - you can handle anything.
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