Saturday, February 28, 2015

Before.... Sasural

When a girl leaves her parents house, she goes to her husband's house (Sasural)- this was the old scenario. Now that the girls are more advanced, they study and do jobs,  they mostly have to live with other gals before her Sasural (whether in a hostel or a flat or as a paying guest) for a short or sometimes a long period of time!!

And let me tell you this is the most beautiful or a most horrible phase of a girl's life.

If she is lucky  and she gets like-minded people to live with. I would not use the word - 'Good' or 'Bad' as they are  qualitative terms and needs to be defined with respect with something. And again what GOOD for me may not be Good Enough for others.



So if the wavelength  matches (and you are in terms with each other differences), then this time will never come back for you again. Whether you call it the Sister-Hood or Crazy-Gang - its the best time of life.



Its like, we are each other's genie pigs  for every thing, specially all trial cooks, then make-up and etc etc. [I even explain my rummies some research paper they are least interested in!]

Parents bother,  but only over the phone.

And the parents who were so concern when you dated someone earlier, would give u a list of guys and beg you to meet them over coffee.

Gal their you Go!!! Have a lot of coffee before you lose you freedom!!!!!

Well.... well... well, its not all fairy tale for all girls. If you happen to be with the wrong people then think of it as HELL!! How much you cry over the phone no rescue is coming, even you know that!

I think, girls in this case rather marry. 

One Saans is better than handling 3-4 more!!! 
So Good or Bad, this phase of time prepares you for this Big Bad World!! Even though the world is male dominated, if you have learnt to handle a couple of  different gals - you can handle anything.

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